Urgent situations
They won’t eat or drink
Low intake can become urgent faster than most people expect—especially in older adults. Use this to decide what to try today and when to seek help.
Quick checklist
- If they can’t swallow safely, are choking, or have drooling/voice changes, seek urgent care.
- If they’ve had very little fluid for 24 hours (or signs of dehydration), call a clinician same-day.
- Try small, frequent sips and easy calories rather than large meals.
- Track intake for 24 hours so you can report it clearly.
Call now / go now
- Trouble breathing, repeated choking, or suspected aspiration.
- New severe weakness, fainting, or confusion with low intake.
- No urination for many hours, very dark urine, or dizziness on standing.
Try this first (gentle)
- Offer fluids every 15–30 minutes: water, electrolyte drink, broth, tea.
- Easy calories: yogurt, pudding, smoothies, soup, scrambled eggs.
- Address mouth pain: check dentures, dry mouth, sores; consider warm salt-water rinse (if safe).
- Reduce pressure: offer choices and small portions; avoid arguments.
Do not do
- Don’t force food or fluids if swallowing seems unsafe.
- Don’t ignore medication needs—call a clinician if they can’t take essential meds.