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Family meeting script: splitting tasks
A short, structured conversation can prevent resentment and reduce chaos. This page gives a simple agenda and scripts.
Quick checklist
- Set a 30–45 minute time limit.
- Bring a list of tasks and hours required.
- Ask for specific commitments (time-bound).
- Document who owns what and review monthly.
Simple agenda
- Current situation (facts only).
- Task list and weekly hours needed.
- Who can do what (specific commitments).
- Backup plan for emergencies.
- Next check-in date.
Useful phrases
- “I’m asking for two hours every Saturday for the next month.”
- “If you can’t do time, can you cover a bill or a service?”
- “Let’s decide a plan today, then adjust later.”